I have been writing a blog for the last few months. It is a
creative outlet for me and was rather intrigued to discover that today’s social
media would enable me to make my voice heard internationally. With some
encouragement I began to feel rather empowered by that process and frankly
rather obsessed with how hashtags on twitter could direct my blog to the person,
organization or region of the world that I want to address. The direction of my
blog took an abrupt turn towards the issue of Rape after the death of the 23 year
old woman in India. It wasn’t that I had
been unaware prior to that news. It was just that I got sort of tired of seeing
news of Kim Kardashain getting more
media attention than the epidemic of rape. Most recently I posted a letter to the Prime
Minister of India and a person in Mumbai
asked if I had also written a letter to President Obama, addressing all of the
problems that exist in the US. In fact, I realize I have not. So here goes:
Dear President Obama,
Congratulations on your re-election and Happy New Year to
you and your beautiful family. I am so proud of you.
I am writing to you today because I want to acknowledge that
the United States is an imperfect country. We have a lot of issues to deal
with, we have a gun control problem, mental health issues, uninsured people,
unemployment and clearly we are not yet out of the danger zone economically. I’m
pretty certain that most of the world feels that we set forth the 2008 global
economic crises with our sub-prime lending and overall corporate greed. I’m
inclined to agree with them. I should probably mention that I am also very
concerned with poverty in our country. I’m concerned by the fact that the poor
in our country are relatively voiceless and overwhelmed by a sense of
hopelessness. I could also go on a complete tirade about Americentrism or American Exceptionalism, I’m
there Mr. President. I am on that bandwagon. The truth however, is that I feel
incredibly fortunate to live in the United States.
If my Dutch father had had his way my family would likely
still be in Indonesia. And if the truth be known we probably would have been
sitting pretty or maybe not. Members of my Dutch-Indonesian family could have
been abducted during the Bersiap period never to be seen again. The truth of
the matter is that it was the United States that offered my family refuge after
my parents and two older brothers were forced out of Indonesia. It was the genuine
kindness and generosity of people in rural Lawrence, Kansas that allowed my family
to grow and thrive in an environment completely foreign to what they knew. The
love and nurturing provided to my family allowed us to share a beautiful part
of the American Dream. By Golly, my brothers and I “are” the American Dream.
Maybe it is because of our history that I feel a
responsibility to women on the other side of the earth. I’m not implying that
women have the perfect life in the States. I think that we are still fighting
an uphill battle for equality and sexual abuse and rape are a prevalent issue.
It’s just that I won the birthplace lottery and I can go to a movie, board what
looks like a public bus with my male companion and be delivered home with relative
certainty. If for some reason during that commute I end up lying on the side of
the road bleeding with my intestines on the outside of my body because an iron
rod was used as a tool of rape, I can be certain that some good Samaritan will
stop to offer me aid. I want my sisters on the other side of the earth to have
that same privilege. I have no doubt that it is attainable but I don’t believe
it can happen without my voice and the voice of millions of others who want the
same. I just can’t sit in the safety of my life and ignore the fact that my
odds and those of my daughters are better because of luck and geography.
Thank you so much for your time, Mr. President. If you and
Mrs. Obama have time, please have look at my blog and share your thoughts. http://ingridkeizerwilson.blogspot.com/.
Respectfully Yours,
Ingrid Keizer Wilson
If you would like to discuss human rights issues or the
empowerment of women in your country, I will happily exchange email or call you
at your convenience. Please email me at kcikeizer@comcast.net.
As always if you are a victim of sexual abuse and need help
or would like to learn more about preventing sexual abuse please visit
http://www.rainn.org/get-help/sexual-assault-and-rape-international-resources.
I strongly support for working for woman abuse because in Tibet, women have been torturing and One 28-year old nun, Tenzin Choedon who is one of them and she has since escaped to India, describes the torture she sustained while imprisoned in Gutsa Detention Center:
ReplyDelete"We were all hit with rifle butts ... then an official set a dog upon me ... We were then taken to a hall and ordered to remove our clothes, except for our waistcoat and petticoat ... I was stripped and told to lie down on the floor as if prostrating. I saw them bringing knotted ropes, electric batons and sticks ... First I was hit with a stick all over my body ... I saw my fellow nuns being abused with electric batons in their anuses. When the baton was used on my body, I felt as if a nerve in my heart was being pulled out and my stomach was in pain ... I was told to stand up and lean against the wall ... they inserted a stick into my vagina four times with full force, which resulted in pain that lasted for three days and also gave me problems when urinating. Then the stick was rammed into my mouth ... after this incident, I was unable to move and they had to take me to my cell. When I recovered my senses, I saw that my skin had become green and that I had marks on my buttocks."
What is happening within our human family is unbelievable!
Lobsang, I am simply without words (an unusual situation for me) and I am devastated by this. I am however, so grateful to have this connection with you. Thank you for your support.
DeleteLobsang, I was sent some information about Tibet this morning and am simply saddened and overwhelmed by what I have read. I will try to contact someone at the US off of TWA (http://tibetanwomen.org/) in attempt to have a more complete understanding. I have so much to learn about the world. Again, I am grateful to have made your acquaintance and look forward to learning more from you.
DeleteVery realistic and touching letter to President Obama.
ReplyDeleteThank Ingrid.
Mahamat
Mahamat that is a lovely compliment from one of my favorite people. I am so touched that you are reading my blog.
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